\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"] Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\nWhat are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n
The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"] A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"] The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"] Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\nWhat are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n
The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"] A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"] The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"] Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\nWhat are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n
The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"] A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"] The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n