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\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
\n

TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
\n

TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
\n

TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
\n

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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
\n

TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
\n

TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
\n

TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
\n

TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
\n

TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
\n

TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
\n

TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
\n

TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
\n

TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
\n

TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
\n

TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
\n

TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
\n

TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
\n

TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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\"Picture
Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
\n

TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

\"Picture
Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

\"Picture
Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

\"Picture
Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

\"Picture
Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"\"<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"\"<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"\"<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

\"Picture
Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"\"<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"\"<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"\"<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"\"<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"\"<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

\"Picture
Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

\"Picture
Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

\"Picture
Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Chinese
Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/NKsamaras\/status\/1571392638036623361\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Hiz__majesty\/status\/1571459225351606273\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/AM_Saleeem\/status\/1571053320600702977\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/KawuGarba\/status\/1571055521020649472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Ifeanyi82\/status\/1571143911040745472\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319157\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: South Africans Are Debating A Woman's Right To Have More Than One Husband\ud83d\ude33. What Do You Think?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-south-africans-are-debating-for-women-to-marry-more-than-one-husband-where-do-you-stand","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:09:50","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=305025","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"epic_block_3"};

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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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\"Mens<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Remote Kruger and Mozambique - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Namibia's Etosha - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Remote Kruger and Mozambique - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Namibia's Etosha - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Namibia's Etosha - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Serene relaxation beach: Photo Source: ( Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls, Chobe - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Namibia's Etosha - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Remote Kruger and Mozambique - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tanzania Private Island- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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South Africa's Kruger Park - ( Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tanzania Private Island- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls, Chobe - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Namibia's Etosha - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Remote Kruger and Mozambique - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tanzania Private Island- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls, Chobe - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Namibia's Etosha - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Remote Kruger and Mozambique - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Imagine gazing upon the awe-inspiring Victoria Falls, feeling its mist on your skin as you hold hands with your beloved. This 11-day tour takes you to Hwange's untamed beauty and Mana Pools' riverine landscapes. The raw connection with nature and each other will make this honeymoon truly exceptional. Explore the details of this unforgettable journey.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Namibia's Etosha - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Victoria Falls - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Imagine gazing upon the awe-inspiring Victoria Falls, feeling its mist on your skin as you hold hands with your beloved. This 11-day tour takes you to Hwange's untamed beauty and Mana Pools' riverine landscapes. The raw connection with nature and each other will make this honeymoon truly exceptional. Explore the details of this unforgettable journey.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tanzania Private Island- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls, Chobe - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Namibia's Etosha - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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5. Victoria Falls, Hwange, and Mana Pools: Romance and Wilderness Collide<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Imagine gazing upon the awe-inspiring Victoria Falls, feeling its mist on your skin as you hold hands with your beloved. This 11-day tour takes you to Hwange's untamed beauty and Mana Pools' riverine landscapes. The raw connection with nature and each other will make this honeymoon truly exceptional. Explore the details of this unforgettable journey.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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For couples seeking a unique blend of safari and beach relaxation, this 10-day tour is the ultimate choice. Embark on thrilling game drives in Zambia's untamed wilderness, followed by serene beach days in Malawi. The adventure continues as you snorkel in Lake Malawi's crystal-clear waters and create everlasting memories. Plan your safari and beach retreat now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Victoria Falls, Hwange, and Mana Pools: Romance and Wilderness Collide<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Imagine gazing upon the awe-inspiring Victoria Falls, feeling its mist on your skin as you hold hands with your beloved. This 11-day tour takes you to Hwange's untamed beauty and Mana Pools' riverine landscapes. The raw connection with nature and each other will make this honeymoon truly exceptional. Explore the details of this unforgettable journey.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Namibia's Etosha - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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For couples seeking a unique blend of safari and beach relaxation, this 10-day tour is the ultimate choice. Embark on thrilling game drives in Zambia's untamed wilderness, followed by serene beach days in Malawi. The adventure continues as you snorkel in Lake Malawi's crystal-clear waters and create everlasting memories. Plan your safari and beach retreat now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Victoria Falls, Hwange, and Mana Pools: Romance and Wilderness Collide<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Imagine gazing upon the awe-inspiring Victoria Falls, feeling its mist on your skin as you hold hands with your beloved. This 11-day tour takes you to Hwange's untamed beauty and Mana Pools' riverine landscapes. The raw connection with nature and each other will make this honeymoon truly exceptional. Explore the details of this unforgettable journey.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tanzania Private Island- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls, Chobe - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Namibia's Etosha - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Remote Kruger and Mozambique - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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4. Zambia Safari and Malawi Beach Retreat: A Fusion of Safari and Sun<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples seeking a unique blend of safari and beach relaxation, this 10-day tour is the ultimate choice. Embark on thrilling game drives in Zambia's untamed wilderness, followed by serene beach days in Malawi. The adventure continues as you snorkel in Lake Malawi's crystal-clear waters and create everlasting memories. Plan your safari and beach retreat now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Victoria Falls, Hwange, and Mana Pools: Romance and Wilderness Collide<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Imagine gazing upon the awe-inspiring Victoria Falls, feeling its mist on your skin as you hold hands with your beloved. This 11-day tour takes you to Hwange's untamed beauty and Mana Pools' riverine landscapes. The raw connection with nature and each other will make this honeymoon truly exceptional. Explore the details of this unforgettable journey.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Experience the wonder of the Great Migration like never before. This luxury safari spans 9 days, guiding you through the Serengeti's heart-stopping moments as the wildebeest herds traverse the plains. With lavish accommodations and expert guides, this tour offers intimacy and adventure in equal measure. Learn more about the luxury Tanzania migration safari.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Zambia Safari and Malawi Beach Retreat: A Fusion of Safari and Sun<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Zambia Safari - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples seeking a unique blend of safari and beach relaxation, this 10-day tour is the ultimate choice. Embark on thrilling game drives in Zambia's untamed wilderness, followed by serene beach days in Malawi. The adventure continues as you snorkel in Lake Malawi's crystal-clear waters and create everlasting memories. Plan your safari and beach retreat now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Victoria Falls, Hwange, and Mana Pools: Romance and Wilderness Collide<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Imagine gazing upon the awe-inspiring Victoria Falls, feeling its mist on your skin as you hold hands with your beloved. This 11-day tour takes you to Hwange's untamed beauty and Mana Pools' riverine landscapes. The raw connection with nature and each other will make this honeymoon truly exceptional. Explore the details of this unforgettable journey.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Luxury Tanzania Migration- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Experience the wonder of the Great Migration like never before. This luxury safari spans 9 days, guiding you through the Serengeti's heart-stopping moments as the wildebeest herds traverse the plains. With lavish accommodations and expert guides, this tour offers intimacy and adventure in equal measure. Learn more about the luxury Tanzania migration safari.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Zambia Safari and Malawi Beach Retreat: A Fusion of Safari and Sun<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples seeking a unique blend of safari and beach relaxation, this 10-day tour is the ultimate choice. Embark on thrilling game drives in Zambia's untamed wilderness, followed by serene beach days in Malawi. The adventure continues as you snorkel in Lake Malawi's crystal-clear waters and create everlasting memories. Plan your safari and beach retreat now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Victoria Falls, Hwange, and Mana Pools: Romance and Wilderness Collide<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Imagine gazing upon the awe-inspiring Victoria Falls, feeling its mist on your skin as you hold hands with your beloved. This 11-day tour takes you to Hwange's untamed beauty and Mana Pools' riverine landscapes. The raw connection with nature and each other will make this honeymoon truly exceptional. Explore the details of this unforgettable journey.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tanzania Private Island- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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3. Luxury Tanzania Migration Safari: Follow the Footsteps of a Million Wildebeest<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Luxury Tanzania Migration- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Experience the wonder of the Great Migration like never before. This luxury safari spans 9 days, guiding you through the Serengeti's heart-stopping moments as the wildebeest herds traverse the plains. With lavish accommodations and expert guides, this tour offers intimacy and adventure in equal measure. Learn more about the luxury Tanzania migration safari.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Zambia Safari and Malawi Beach Retreat: A Fusion of Safari and Sun<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Zambia Safari - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples seeking a unique blend of safari and beach relaxation, this 10-day tour is the ultimate choice. Embark on thrilling game drives in Zambia's untamed wilderness, followed by serene beach days in Malawi. The adventure continues as you snorkel in Lake Malawi's crystal-clear waters and create everlasting memories. Plan your safari and beach retreat now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Victoria Falls, Hwange, and Mana Pools: Romance and Wilderness Collide<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Imagine gazing upon the awe-inspiring Victoria Falls, feeling its mist on your skin as you hold hands with your beloved. This 11-day tour takes you to Hwange's untamed beauty and Mana Pools' riverine landscapes. The raw connection with nature and each other will make this honeymoon truly exceptional. Explore the details of this unforgettable journey.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tanzania Private Island- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls, Chobe - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Namibia's Etosha - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Remote Kruger and Mozambique - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Also Read:<\/strong> 1-Hour Coastal Catamaran Cruise from Cape Town<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Luxury Tanzania Migration Safari: Follow the Footsteps of a Million Wildebeest<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Luxury Tanzania Migration- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Experience the wonder of the Great Migration like never before. This luxury safari spans 9 days, guiding you through the Serengeti's heart-stopping moments as the wildebeest herds traverse the plains. With lavish accommodations and expert guides, this tour offers intimacy and adventure in equal measure. Learn more about the luxury Tanzania migration safari.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Zambia Safari and Malawi Beach Retreat: A Fusion of Safari and Sun<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Zambia Safari - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples seeking a unique blend of safari and beach relaxation, this 10-day tour is the ultimate choice. Embark on thrilling game drives in Zambia's untamed wilderness, followed by serene beach days in Malawi. The adventure continues as you snorkel in Lake Malawi's crystal-clear waters and create everlasting memories. Plan your safari and beach retreat now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Victoria Falls, Hwange, and Mana Pools: Romance and Wilderness Collide<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Imagine gazing upon the awe-inspiring Victoria Falls, feeling its mist on your skin as you hold hands with your beloved. This 11-day tour takes you to Hwange's untamed beauty and Mana Pools' riverine landscapes. The raw connection with nature and each other will make this honeymoon truly exceptional. Explore the details of this unforgettable journey.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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South Africa's Kruger Park - ( Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tanzania Private Island- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls, Chobe - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Namibia's Etosha - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Remote Kruger and Mozambique - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Franschhoek Hop on Hop off - (Photo Source: Viator<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Serene relaxation beach: Photo Source: ( Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Tanzania is synonymous with adventure, and this 14-day tour brings you the best of it. From the romantic Ngorongoro Crater and the endless plains of Serengeti to the serene Eastern Shores, you'll be treated to a whirlwind of landscapes and experiences. Witness the stunning wildlife and indulge in luxurious lodges, creating memories that will last a lifetime. Discover the tour details here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read:<\/strong> 1-Hour Coastal Catamaran Cruise from Cape Town<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Luxury Tanzania Migration Safari: Follow the Footsteps of a Million Wildebeest<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Luxury Tanzania Migration- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Experience the wonder of the Great Migration like never before. This luxury safari spans 9 days, guiding you through the Serengeti's heart-stopping moments as the wildebeest herds traverse the plains. With lavish accommodations and expert guides, this tour offers intimacy and adventure in equal measure. Learn more about the luxury Tanzania migration safari.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Zambia Safari and Malawi Beach Retreat: A Fusion of Safari and Sun<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples seeking a unique blend of safari and beach relaxation, this 10-day tour is the ultimate choice. Embark on thrilling game drives in Zambia's untamed wilderness, followed by serene beach days in Malawi. The adventure continues as you snorkel in Lake Malawi's crystal-clear waters and create everlasting memories. Plan your safari and beach retreat now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Victoria Falls, Hwange, and Mana Pools: Romance and Wilderness Collide<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Imagine gazing upon the awe-inspiring Victoria Falls, feeling its mist on your skin as you hold hands with your beloved. This 11-day tour takes you to Hwange's untamed beauty and Mana Pools' riverine landscapes. The raw connection with nature and each other will make this honeymoon truly exceptional. Explore the details of this unforgettable journey.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Tanzania's Highlands, Serengeti, and Eastern Shores<\/em> - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Tanzania is synonymous with adventure, and this 14-day tour brings you the best of it. From the romantic Ngorongoro Crater and the endless plains of Serengeti to the serene Eastern Shores, you'll be treated to a whirlwind of landscapes and experiences. Witness the stunning wildlife and indulge in luxurious lodges, creating memories that will last a lifetime. Discover the tour details here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read:<\/strong> 1-Hour Coastal Catamaran Cruise from Cape Town<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Luxury Tanzania Migration Safari: Follow the Footsteps of a Million Wildebeest<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Luxury Tanzania Migration- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Experience the wonder of the Great Migration like never before. This luxury safari spans 9 days, guiding you through the Serengeti's heart-stopping moments as the wildebeest herds traverse the plains. With lavish accommodations and expert guides, this tour offers intimacy and adventure in equal measure. Learn more about the luxury Tanzania migration safari.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Zambia Safari and Malawi Beach Retreat: A Fusion of Safari and Sun<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Zambia Safari - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples seeking a unique blend of safari and beach relaxation, this 10-day tour is the ultimate choice. Embark on thrilling game drives in Zambia's untamed wilderness, followed by serene beach days in Malawi. The adventure continues as you snorkel in Lake Malawi's crystal-clear waters and create everlasting memories. Plan your safari and beach retreat now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Victoria Falls, Hwange, and Mana Pools: Romance and Wilderness Collide<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Imagine gazing upon the awe-inspiring Victoria Falls, feeling its mist on your skin as you hold hands with your beloved. This 11-day tour takes you to Hwange's untamed beauty and Mana Pools' riverine landscapes. The raw connection with nature and each other will make this honeymoon truly exceptional. Explore the details of this unforgettable journey.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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2. Tanzania's Highlands, Serengeti, and Eastern Shores: Romance in the Wild<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tanzania's Highlands, Serengeti, and Eastern Shores<\/em> - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Tanzania is synonymous with adventure, and this 14-day tour brings you the best of it. From the romantic Ngorongoro Crater and the endless plains of Serengeti to the serene Eastern Shores, you'll be treated to a whirlwind of landscapes and experiences. Witness the stunning wildlife and indulge in luxurious lodges, creating memories that will last a lifetime. Discover the tour details here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read:<\/strong> 1-Hour Coastal Catamaran Cruise from Cape Town<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Luxury Tanzania Migration Safari: Follow the Footsteps of a Million Wildebeest<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Luxury Tanzania Migration- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Experience the wonder of the Great Migration like never before. This luxury safari spans 9 days, guiding you through the Serengeti's heart-stopping moments as the wildebeest herds traverse the plains. With lavish accommodations and expert guides, this tour offers intimacy and adventure in equal measure. Learn more about the luxury Tanzania migration safari.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Zambia Safari and Malawi Beach Retreat: A Fusion of Safari and Sun<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Zambia Safari - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples seeking a unique blend of safari and beach relaxation, this 10-day tour is the ultimate choice. Embark on thrilling game drives in Zambia's untamed wilderness, followed by serene beach days in Malawi. The adventure continues as you snorkel in Lake Malawi's crystal-clear waters and create everlasting memories. Plan your safari and beach retreat now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Victoria Falls, Hwange, and Mana Pools: Romance and Wilderness Collide<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Imagine gazing upon the awe-inspiring Victoria Falls, feeling its mist on your skin as you hold hands with your beloved. This 11-day tour takes you to Hwange's untamed beauty and Mana Pools' riverine landscapes. The raw connection with nature and each other will make this honeymoon truly exceptional. Explore the details of this unforgettable journey.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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South Africa's Kruger Park - ( Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tanzania Private Island- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls, Chobe - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Namibia's Etosha - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Remote Kruger and Mozambique - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Picture this: you and your partner are surrounded by the breathtaking beauty of Kenya's wilderness. The Amboseli National Park's iconic elephant herds, the rugged landscapes of Laikipia, and the vast plains of Maasai Mara \u00e2\u0080\u0093 it's an African dream come true. This 12-day safari extravaganza will take you on an unforgettable journey, encountering the Big Five and witnessing the Great Migration in all its glory. Explore the tour here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Tanzania's Highlands, Serengeti, and Eastern Shores: Romance in the Wild<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tanzania's Highlands, Serengeti, and Eastern Shores<\/em> - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Tanzania is synonymous with adventure, and this 14-day tour brings you the best of it. From the romantic Ngorongoro Crater and the endless plains of Serengeti to the serene Eastern Shores, you'll be treated to a whirlwind of landscapes and experiences. Witness the stunning wildlife and indulge in luxurious lodges, creating memories that will last a lifetime. Discover the tour details here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read:<\/strong> 1-Hour Coastal Catamaran Cruise from Cape Town<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Luxury Tanzania Migration Safari: Follow the Footsteps of a Million Wildebeest<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Luxury Tanzania Migration- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Experience the wonder of the Great Migration like never before. This luxury safari spans 9 days, guiding you through the Serengeti's heart-stopping moments as the wildebeest herds traverse the plains. With lavish accommodations and expert guides, this tour offers intimacy and adventure in equal measure. Learn more about the luxury Tanzania migration safari.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Zambia Safari and Malawi Beach Retreat: A Fusion of Safari and Sun<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Zambia Safari - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples seeking a unique blend of safari and beach relaxation, this 10-day tour is the ultimate choice. Embark on thrilling game drives in Zambia's untamed wilderness, followed by serene beach days in Malawi. The adventure continues as you snorkel in Lake Malawi's crystal-clear waters and create everlasting memories. Plan your safari and beach retreat now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Victoria Falls, Hwange, and Mana Pools: Romance and Wilderness Collide<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Imagine gazing upon the awe-inspiring Victoria Falls, feeling its mist on your skin as you hold hands with your beloved. This 11-day tour takes you to Hwange's untamed beauty and Mana Pools' riverine landscapes. The raw connection with nature and each other will make this honeymoon truly exceptional. Explore the details of this unforgettable journey.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tanzania Private Island- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls, Chobe - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Namibia's Etosha - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Remote Kruger and Mozambique - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Franschhoek Hop on Hop off - (Photo Source: Viator<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Kenya's Amboseli - ( Photo Source: Viator<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Picture this: you and your partner are surrounded by the breathtaking beauty of Kenya's wilderness. The Amboseli National Park's iconic elephant herds, the rugged landscapes of Laikipia, and the vast plains of Maasai Mara \u00e2\u0080\u0093 it's an African dream come true. This 12-day safari extravaganza will take you on an unforgettable journey, encountering the Big Five and witnessing the Great Migration in all its glory. Explore the tour here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Tanzania's Highlands, Serengeti, and Eastern Shores: Romance in the Wild<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tanzania's Highlands, Serengeti, and Eastern Shores<\/em> - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Tanzania is synonymous with adventure, and this 14-day tour brings you the best of it. From the romantic Ngorongoro Crater and the endless plains of Serengeti to the serene Eastern Shores, you'll be treated to a whirlwind of landscapes and experiences. Witness the stunning wildlife and indulge in luxurious lodges, creating memories that will last a lifetime. Discover the tour details here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read:<\/strong> 1-Hour Coastal Catamaran Cruise from Cape Town<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Luxury Tanzania Migration Safari: Follow the Footsteps of a Million Wildebeest<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Luxury Tanzania Migration- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Experience the wonder of the Great Migration like never before. This luxury safari spans 9 days, guiding you through the Serengeti's heart-stopping moments as the wildebeest herds traverse the plains. With lavish accommodations and expert guides, this tour offers intimacy and adventure in equal measure. Learn more about the luxury Tanzania migration safari.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Zambia Safari and Malawi Beach Retreat: A Fusion of Safari and Sun<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Zambia Safari - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples seeking a unique blend of safari and beach relaxation, this 10-day tour is the ultimate choice. Embark on thrilling game drives in Zambia's untamed wilderness, followed by serene beach days in Malawi. The adventure continues as you snorkel in Lake Malawi's crystal-clear waters and create everlasting memories. Plan your safari and beach retreat now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Victoria Falls, Hwange, and Mana Pools: Romance and Wilderness Collide<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Imagine gazing upon the awe-inspiring Victoria Falls, feeling its mist on your skin as you hold hands with your beloved. This 11-day tour takes you to Hwange's untamed beauty and Mana Pools' riverine landscapes. The raw connection with nature and each other will make this honeymoon truly exceptional. Explore the details of this unforgettable journey.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tanzania Private Island- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls, Chobe - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Namibia's Etosha - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Franschhoek Hop on Hop off - (Photo Source: Viator<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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1. Kenya's Amboseli, Laikipia, and Maasai Mara: A Safari Extravaganza<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Kenya's Amboseli - ( Photo Source: Viator<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Picture this: you and your partner are surrounded by the breathtaking beauty of Kenya's wilderness. The Amboseli National Park's iconic elephant herds, the rugged landscapes of Laikipia, and the vast plains of Maasai Mara \u00e2\u0080\u0093 it's an African dream come true. This 12-day safari extravaganza will take you on an unforgettable journey, encountering the Big Five and witnessing the Great Migration in all its glory. Explore the tour here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Tanzania's Highlands, Serengeti, and Eastern Shores: Romance in the Wild<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tanzania's Highlands, Serengeti, and Eastern Shores<\/em> - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Tanzania is synonymous with adventure, and this 14-day tour brings you the best of it. From the romantic Ngorongoro Crater and the endless plains of Serengeti to the serene Eastern Shores, you'll be treated to a whirlwind of landscapes and experiences. Witness the stunning wildlife and indulge in luxurious lodges, creating memories that will last a lifetime. Discover the tour details here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read:<\/strong> 1-Hour Coastal Catamaran Cruise from Cape Town<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Luxury Tanzania Migration Safari: Follow the Footsteps of a Million Wildebeest<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Luxury Tanzania Migration- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Experience the wonder of the Great Migration like never before. This luxury safari spans 9 days, guiding you through the Serengeti's heart-stopping moments as the wildebeest herds traverse the plains. With lavish accommodations and expert guides, this tour offers intimacy and adventure in equal measure. Learn more about the luxury Tanzania migration safari.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Zambia Safari and Malawi Beach Retreat: A Fusion of Safari and Sun<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples seeking a unique blend of safari and beach relaxation, this 10-day tour is the ultimate choice. Embark on thrilling game drives in Zambia's untamed wilderness, followed by serene beach days in Malawi. The adventure continues as you snorkel in Lake Malawi's crystal-clear waters and create everlasting memories. Plan your safari and beach retreat now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Victoria Falls, Hwange, and Mana Pools: Romance and Wilderness Collide<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Imagine gazing upon the awe-inspiring Victoria Falls, feeling its mist on your skin as you hold hands with your beloved. This 11-day tour takes you to Hwange's untamed beauty and Mana Pools' riverine landscapes. The raw connection with nature and each other will make this honeymoon truly exceptional. Explore the details of this unforgettable journey.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture of Geng Quarong surrounded by a pool of blood (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Your journey of love is about to embark on an unforgettable tour adventure. What could be more romantic and thrilling than celebrating your newlywed bliss against the backdrop of captivating African landscapes? From the sweeping savannahs to the lush rainforests, Africa offers an array of experiences that will ignite your heart and leave you with cherished memories. If you're seeking a honeymoon that's a perfect blend of romance and excitement, look no further. Here are 11 handpicked African tours that promise an epic honeymoon you'll treasure forever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Kenya's Amboseli, Laikipia, and Maasai Mara: A Safari Extravaganza<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Kenya's Amboseli - ( Photo Source: Viator<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Picture this: you and your partner are surrounded by the breathtaking beauty of Kenya's wilderness. The Amboseli National Park's iconic elephant herds, the rugged landscapes of Laikipia, and the vast plains of Maasai Mara \u00e2\u0080\u0093 it's an African dream come true. This 12-day safari extravaganza will take you on an unforgettable journey, encountering the Big Five and witnessing the Great Migration in all its glory. Explore the tour here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Tanzania's Highlands, Serengeti, and Eastern Shores: Romance in the Wild<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tanzania's Highlands, Serengeti, and Eastern Shores<\/em> - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Tanzania is synonymous with adventure, and this 14-day tour brings you the best of it. From the romantic Ngorongoro Crater and the endless plains of Serengeti to the serene Eastern Shores, you'll be treated to a whirlwind of landscapes and experiences. Witness the stunning wildlife and indulge in luxurious lodges, creating memories that will last a lifetime. Discover the tour details here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read:<\/strong> 1-Hour Coastal Catamaran Cruise from Cape Town<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Luxury Tanzania Migration Safari: Follow the Footsteps of a Million Wildebeest<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Luxury Tanzania Migration- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Experience the wonder of the Great Migration like never before. This luxury safari spans 9 days, guiding you through the Serengeti's heart-stopping moments as the wildebeest herds traverse the plains. With lavish accommodations and expert guides, this tour offers intimacy and adventure in equal measure. Learn more about the luxury Tanzania migration safari.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Zambia Safari and Malawi Beach Retreat: A Fusion of Safari and Sun<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Zambia Safari - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples seeking a unique blend of safari and beach relaxation, this 10-day tour is the ultimate choice. Embark on thrilling game drives in Zambia's untamed wilderness, followed by serene beach days in Malawi. The adventure continues as you snorkel in Lake Malawi's crystal-clear waters and create everlasting memories. Plan your safari and beach retreat now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Victoria Falls, Hwange, and Mana Pools: Romance and Wilderness Collide<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Imagine gazing upon the awe-inspiring Victoria Falls, feeling its mist on your skin as you hold hands with your beloved. This 11-day tour takes you to Hwange's untamed beauty and Mana Pools' riverine landscapes. The raw connection with nature and each other will make this honeymoon truly exceptional. Explore the details of this unforgettable journey.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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South Africa's Kruger Park - ( Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tanzania Private Island- (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Victoria Falls, Chobe - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Namibia's Etosha - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Remote Kruger and Mozambique - (Photo Source: Go2Africa<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Franschhoek Hop on Hop off - (Photo Source: Viator<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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Your journey of love is about to embark on an unforgettable tour adventure. What could be more romantic and thrilling than celebrating your newlywed bliss against the backdrop of captivating African landscapes? From the sweeping savannahs to the lush rainforests, Africa offers an array of experiences that will ignite your heart and leave you with cherished memories. If you're seeking a honeymoon that's a perfect blend of romance and excitement, look no further. Here are 11 handpicked African tours that promise an epic honeymoon you'll treasure forever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Kenya's Amboseli, Laikipia, and Maasai Mara: A Safari Extravaganza<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Picture this: you and your partner are surrounded by the breathtaking beauty of Kenya's wilderness. The Amboseli National Park's iconic elephant herds, the rugged landscapes of Laikipia, and the vast plains of Maasai Mara \u00e2\u0080\u0093 it's an African dream come true. This 12-day safari extravaganza will take you on an unforgettable journey, encountering the Big Five and witnessing the Great Migration in all its glory. Explore the tour here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Tanzania's Highlands, Serengeti, and Eastern Shores: Romance in the Wild<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Tanzania is synonymous with adventure, and this 14-day tour brings you the best of it. From the romantic Ngorongoro Crater and the endless plains of Serengeti to the serene Eastern Shores, you'll be treated to a whirlwind of landscapes and experiences. Witness the stunning wildlife and indulge in luxurious lodges, creating memories that will last a lifetime. Discover the tour details here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read:<\/strong> 1-Hour Coastal Catamaran Cruise from Cape Town<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Luxury Tanzania Migration Safari: Follow the Footsteps of a Million Wildebeest<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Experience the wonder of the Great Migration like never before. This luxury safari spans 9 days, guiding you through the Serengeti's heart-stopping moments as the wildebeest herds traverse the plains. With lavish accommodations and expert guides, this tour offers intimacy and adventure in equal measure. Learn more about the luxury Tanzania migration safari.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Zambia Safari and Malawi Beach Retreat: A Fusion of Safari and Sun<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples seeking a unique blend of safari and beach relaxation, this 10-day tour is the ultimate choice. Embark on thrilling game drives in Zambia's untamed wilderness, followed by serene beach days in Malawi. The adventure continues as you snorkel in Lake Malawi's crystal-clear waters and create everlasting memories. Plan your safari and beach retreat now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Victoria Falls, Hwange, and Mana Pools: Romance and Wilderness Collide<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Imagine gazing upon the awe-inspiring Victoria Falls, feeling its mist on your skin as you hold hands with your beloved. This 11-day tour takes you to Hwange's untamed beauty and Mana Pools' riverine landscapes. The raw connection with nature and each other will make this honeymoon truly exceptional. Explore the details of this unforgettable journey.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. South Africa's Kruger Park and Mauritius: Safari and Island Paradise<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Indulge in the best of both worlds with this 12-day tour. Embark on thrilling game drives in South Africa's iconic Kruger National Park, followed by a seamless transition to the luxurious beaches of Mauritius. This tour promises adventure, relaxation, and the perfect blend of safari and island paradise. Plan your romantic getaway here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ultra-Luxury Tanzania Private Island: Your Exclusive Haven<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who seek privacy and exclusivity, this 10-day ultra-luxury tour is a dream come true. Escape to your own private island in Tanzania, where azure waters meet pristine beaches. With unparalleled luxury and romance, this journey is designed for couples to reconnect and celebrate their love. Learn more about this exclusive experience.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Victoria Falls, Chobe, and Okavango Delta Safari: Where Nature Sets the Stage<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Immerse yourselves in the heart of Africa's wildlife on this 13-day safari adventure. Feel the rush of Victoria Falls, witness elephants roam freely in Chobe National Park and experience the tranquillity of the Okavango Delta's waterways. Each moment will be a testament to the beauty and power of nature. Discover the tour highlights here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Namibia's Etosha, Damaraland, and Sossusvlei: A Fly-In Experience<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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For couples who value intimacy and adventure, this 11-day fly-in tour is a perfect match. Soar over Namibia's striking landscapes, from the otherworldly dunes of Sossusvlei to the wildlife-rich Etosha National Park. This tour offers a unique perspective on Namibia's beauty and diversity. Embark on your fly-in adventure here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Remote Kruger and Mozambique: Untouched Wilderness and Secluded Beaches<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If seclusion and untouched beauty are your desires, this 12-day tour is tailor-made for you. Experience the remoteness of Kruger's private reserves, followed by the untouched beaches of Mozambique. This journey seamlessly marries wildlife encounters with intimate beach moments. Plan your remote escape now.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Full-Day Franschhoek Hop-On-Hop-Off Wine Tram Tour from Cape Town<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Drench yourselves in the romantic ambiance of Cape Town's wine country. Spend a day exploring the picturesque Franschhoek Valley, hopping on and off the iconic wine tram as you sip on world-class wines and savor delectable cuisine. This day trip is the perfect blend of romance, relaxation, and indulgence. Book your wine tram tour here<\/a>.
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In conclusion, embarking on one of these 11 unforgettable African tours for your epic honeymoon promises to be a journey of love and adventure that you and your partner will cherish forever. From the mesmerizing landscapes of the Serengeti to the pristine beaches of Zanzibar, or the vibrant cultures of Morocco to the breathtaking Victoria Falls, Africa offers an array of experiences that cater to every couple's unique desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you traverse the diverse terrains and cultures of this enchanting continent, you'll not only create precious memories but also deepen your bond as a newlywed couple. Whether you're gazing at the starry skies of the Sahara Desert, encountering majestic wildlife on a safari, or indulging in the rich flavors of African cuisine, each moment will be an opportunity to celebrate your love and embark on new adventures together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The spirit of Africa, with its warmth, beauty, and untamed wonder, provides the perfect backdrop for the start of your lifelong journey as partners. So, whether you choose to relax by the Indian Ocean, explore ancient ruins, or dance to the rhythm of local music, these handpicked African tours offer an unparalleled fusion of romance and excitement. Let your hearts guide you as you set out on this unforgettable honeymoon, discovering not only the captivating landscapes but also the depths of your love for one another. Your epic African adventure awaits, promising a truly remarkable beginning to your life as a married couple.<\/p>\n","post_title":"Exploring Love and Adventure: 11 Unforgettable African Tours for an Epic Honeymoon","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"exploring-love-adventure-unforgettable-african-tours-epic-honeymoon","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:07:22","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/exploring-love-and-adventure-11-unforgettable-african-tours-for-an-epic-honeymoon-2\/","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401639,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-11-24 07:25:47","post_date_gmt":"2022-11-24 15:25:47","post_content":"\n

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Black Friday is the best opportunity to get a gift for your dad (Photo credit: Cottonbro Studio\/Pexels)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dads are strict<\/a>, mean, tough\u2026 just name it! We have heard it all. We all have had our sour moments of disagreement with our dads\u2014count yourself lucky if you have not, especially if you have African parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Winning over your dad after a serious argument can be really tough. Seize the Black Friday discount opportunity to get your dad a gift. Unless you are really close to your dad, deciding the perfect gift to give him can be really difficult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

African Vibes Community dads shared gift secrets that can soften their hearts. Thanks to Black Friday, these gifts are currently going at mouthwatering prices. Dissolve the frown on your dad\u2019s face with any of the following gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 13 Black Friday Christmas Gift Ideas For African Moms<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Men's Slim Wallet With Money Clip<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Real hardworking dads\u2014not those that make babies and abandon them\u2014always have their pockets stuffed with cash and ID. Due to the lack of organization they sometimes accidentally lose some of their cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The sad part is they are often unable to recall where or when they lost it. Help your dad to stay organized with this wallet that has a money clip and credit cardholder. He will definitely be thankful for it. Interestingly, you can get it for a discount on Black Friday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. Bisgear Backpacking Camping Cookware<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad is planning for a camping trip, you are in luck. Get him this Bisgear backpack for organizing his cooking utensils and you will definitely see a change in his demeanor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men are naturally proud. So, don\u2019t feel bad if he doesn\u2019t show any sign that suggests he loves it. Deep down he is really at war to suppress his emotion. The Black Friday offer feels like a steal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Fossil Men\u2019s Townsman Stainless Steel Leather<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There is a popular saying that time is money. However, it is also true that time heals all wounds. Most times all you need to get back to good terms with your dad is to give him time\u2014and we mean this literally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every man loves a good timepiece and we can bet that your dad is not an exception. Seize this Black Friday deal offer to get him the Townsman Stainless Steel Leather watch. Thank us later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#4. Smart Writing Set Pen and Smart Notebook<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Executive dads told us that the one thing they wish they had was an electronic pen and notebook because of how often they misplace important notes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 30 African Vibes Holiday D\u00e9cor Ideas For Christmas Shoppers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is in this category, make his dream come true with this smart writing pen and notebook. Men forgive easily. Within minutes after delivering this package he will forget there was any rift between the both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Bose QuietComfort Noise Cancelling Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Never underestimate the power of music. If everything else fails, you can fall back on Bose noise-canceling earbuds to mend your relationship with your dad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give it to him, connect it to your phone and play his favorite song. The massive bass that comes with the Boss earbuds will take him to another realm of joy. It works every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Headphones<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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If your dad feels uncomfortable with wireless earbuds, headphones will make a great alternative. Repeat the trick with the earbuds and see how your relationship reignites back to life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have to warn you. Headphones are really addictive and you may end up fighting another battle. Well, it is better than not being on talking terms with your dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.0 Wireless Earbuds<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Perhaps, you are still a student and want something more budget-friendly. This Tozo T10 will definitely be a great bargain. The sound quality is exceptional and they are waterproof. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad always gets things wet, you can be sure that this one will last a long while. The icing on this product is the Black Friday discount. Make sure you don\u2019t miss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. 3-in-1 Waitiee Wireless Charger<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Having dads that are always on the move can be heartbreaking because finding the time to apologize may never come. One thing you can do if you find yourself in that situation is to wrap this 3-in-1 Waitiee wireless charger and leave it with a note on his bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His heart will melt at the sight of this gift because it will save him a lot of time on charging as well as reduce the amount of load that he has to carry on his journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: 11 Ways To Give Back To Society This Holiday Season<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. I Am A Man I Have Feelings<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Want to tell your dad that you understand his sacrifices but unsure of the right words to say? Why not let someone else do the talking for you? Get him the book \u201cI am a man. I have feelings\u201d and let him know you have read it and that you want him to read it too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When he starts reading, the house will definitely become a fountain of waterworks. Nothing gets men emotional like knowing they are loved. Seize the Black Friday discount for a cheaper bargain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Men\u2019s Premium Kente Socks<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A gift doesn\u2019t have to be expensive to be appreciated. All you need is something creative and unique. One of the best in this regard is the Kente socks. If your dad has been romancing his African heritage, this gift will be the tipping point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bigger emotions will always drown smaller ones. Trust us, whatever problem you have with your dad will be nothing compared to what he will feel. Turn to Black Friday deals to buy this Kente socks at irresistible prices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#11. Braided Leather Bracelet<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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We are yet to see a man that doesn't look good wearing braided bracelet. I blends with both native and English wears. Also, it has a way of making a man look more youthful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your dad is the type that fancies a bracelet, this one will send waves of emotions through his spine. It is Black Friday and you will surely get better bargain than at other times of the year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#12. African Ankara Shirt<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Africans in the diaspora always want to stay connected to their roots. Perhaps, your dad has not told you this already because men love to bottle up their emotions so that they will not be seen as weak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This Black Friday, secretly take your dad's measurement and order one of these Ankara shirt for him. No matter how strong your dad may be, his eyes will definitely get watery. This is the best time to try and mend any misunderstanding both of you may have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#13. African Tribal Chess Set<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Some dad's are so busy that they rarely find time to play the games they love. You can't blame them, they are only trying to make ends meet. If your dad loves the game of chess, this is your chance to send him up the emotional ladder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This African chess set is unique and he will definitely want to show it off to his friends. Take advantage of the Black Friday discount sales to get it at a reduced price. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

#14. Carved Heart Keyring<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times and they will still forget. However, when you show someone that you love them, it is bound to stick for life. We all love our dads but are often unsure of how to express that love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are in this dillema, get this carved keyrings this Black Friday and hand him one while you hold on to the other. Tell him that you carry a piece of his heart wherever you go. That will surely get him emotional. Well, this tip is for the ladies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#15. Wall Art Painting<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Anybody that loves art will always get emotional whenever they come in contact with a masterpiece like this beautiful wall painting. Gift it to your dad if he falls in that category and watch his reaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The beauty of this gift is that he will likely hang it on the wall. That means he will always get to stare at it at least once every day and get reminded of the person behind the gift. Good artworks can be really expensive which is why you should never miss Black Friday deals on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conclusion<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Black Friday also presents the opportunity to shop for your Christmas gifts. The world is becoming increasingly difficult and you don\u2019t want to be caught in the middle of the shipping chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The earlier you shop, the higher the chance that it will arrive on time for Christmas. Go ahead, make your pick, and mend the bond with your dad. For Christmas decor ideas, check out this post<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"15 Black Friday Deals That Will Get Your Dad Emotional","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"black-friday-deals-to-help-you-win-over-your-dad","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 08:58:41","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.africanvibes.com\/?p=323599","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":401596,"post_author":"2777","post_date":"2022-09-22 08:33:10","post_date_gmt":"2022-09-22 15:33:10","post_content":"\n

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Picture of Ummukulsum Buhari (Photo credit Twitter @SpaceMediaHub1)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A Chief Magistrate Court sitting in Kano State on Wednesday 21 September 2022 sent a Chinese national Geng Quarong to prison for allegedly killing his ex-Nigerian lover Ummukulsum Buhari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarong was arraigned before the court by the Kano State Police Commissioner on a one-count charge of culpable homicide contrary to Section 221 of Nigeria\u2019s Penal Code.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanif Yusuf, the trial magistrate remanded the Chinese national in prison while awaiting further legal advice from the state Ministry of Justice. Consequently, the case was adjourned to 13 October 2022.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The details of the incident remain sketchy with some saying trouble started when the deceased lost interest in marrying the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ<\/strong>: Is The COVID-19 Mistreatment Of Africans In China A Form Of Retaliation?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it was gathered from credible sources that the 47 years old Chinese national living in Nassarawa GRA Quarters, Kano forced himself into the family residence of the 22-year-old victim on 16 September at about 9:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afterward, he attacked her with a sharp knife which left the victim with deep cuts on her neck and various other body parts. The victim who is believed to be undergoing the one-year compulsory National Youth Service Corps was rushed to the hospital after the attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, doctors confirmed her dead on arrival. She died from the injuries sustained during the attack. The suspect tried to flee from the scene but residents raised alarm leading to his arrest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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More trouble for the Chinese national<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The House of Representatives has shown interest in Geng Quarong\u2019s case. The lower chamber mandated its committees on Interior and Justice to Investigate the immigration status of the Chinese national.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, the committee members will visit the deceased family to convey the House\u2019s condolence. The House also directed the Chinese community in Kano State and the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria to condole the government of Nigeria and the people of Kano State.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> See The Fate Of The Chinese National Behind The Viral Malawi Children Exploitative Video<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Furthermore, there was deliberation on whether to suspend the operations of the firm Geng Quarong was working with pending the determination of his legal status. The resolution was in reaction to the motion of urgent public importance moved by Kabiru Rurun<\/a>, an honorable representing the local Rano\/Kibiya\/Bunkure federal constituency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The Chinese Business Community Association of Nigeria has issued a statement in support of Mr. Geng\u2019s prosecution. The leader of the community Mike Zhang said the community condemns the criminal act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nevertheless, there are growing concerns that the deceased may not get justice. This sentiment was echoed by honorable Rurun who said that although it was clear that it was a pre-meditated action, the police \u201cwas yet to present a preliminary investigation report\u201d five days after.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The murder of Ummukulsum Buhari has sparked outrage with more groups calling for justice. One such group is the International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Kano State chapter. The group is demanding a thorough investigation and justice for the deceased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ALSO READ:<\/strong> Chinese Firm Forged Documents To Win Contracts In Kenya. This Is What Happened<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The association visited the family of the deceased to sympathize with them. They also condemned the incident. Right after the visit, the Chairperson of the association Bilkisu Suleiman released a statement. Part of the statement read,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe strongly condemn the murder of Ummukulsum Buhari. Thus, we are calling on the concerned authorities to ensure a thorough investigation so that justice will be done.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do you think will be the fate of an African that commits a similar offense in China? No doubt, African countries have weak immigration laws which make it easy for Europeans, Asians, and Americans to get it. We will be on the lookout for the finding on the immigration status of the Chinese national that killed Buhari. <\/p>\n\n\n","post_title":"See The Fate Of The Chinese National That Killed His Alleged Girlfriend In Nigeria","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","post_password":"","post_name":"fate-of-the-chinese-national-that-killed-his-alleged-girlfriend-in-nigeria","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_modified_gmt":"2024-10-16 17:00:19","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.com\/?p=342980","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"},{"ID":2309,"post_author":"7","post_date":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_date_gmt":"2022-02-16 14:00:58","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_289679\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"1280\"]\"The Photo by\u00a0Alex Green<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0from\u00a0Pexels<\/a><\/strong><\/em>[\/caption]\n\nLet's be realistic, many couples are not happy with their marriages. In a large number of cases, the reason is almost often tied to a lack of sexual satisfaction or sexlessness.\n\nAccording to Dr. Rachel Becker-Warner<\/a>, a sex therapist at the University of Minnesota, any relationship where the partners have fewer than 10 rounds of sex in a year is considered minimal. So, what happens when one partner in a marriage is always craving sex and the other seems uninterested?\n\nInterestingly, it is usually the men that want more sex at all the stages of a relationship. This statement was tested using a survey<\/a> and found to be true by a Florida State University social psychologist, Roy Baumeister.\n\nBased on his findings, Baumeister concluded that \"Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it\". So, can a married man earn the right to cheat?\n

What are the factors that lead to low sex drive in women?<\/h2>\nWomen's sexual drive usually rises at the beginning of a relationship and falls toward the end. However, other major life changes like menopause, and pregnancy, can also lead to low sex drive in women. Also, medications used in the treatment of mood problems can also interfere with sex drive.\n\nWe cannot also overlook mental distress. For example, the wage and education gap between African Americans<\/a> in the United States is alarming. For this reason, couples often find themselves working long hours to pay their bills.\n\nIn most families, the wife has to combine this with house chores and taking care of the children. So, will you blame her if she becomes too tired to satisfy her husband at the end of it all?\n

The case of Jon<\/h2>\nSome married men believe they have the right to get sexual satisfaction elsewhere if their wife is not capable of meeting their needs since either their religious fate or the economy will not allow them to have more than one wife. Let's look at the case of Jon as a classic example. This is the message we received from Jon.\n\n\"I have a huge problem. My wife has lost interest in intimacy and sex ever since we got married and had our first child who is now 9 months old. No matter how much I try to talk about it with her or address any issues she might have, she refuses to entertain the subject.<\/em>\n\n\"Is that all you can think about?\" is all she will say and walk away. \u00a0It seems she doesn't care about how I feel about it. \u00a0Do I have the right to cheat? \u00a0I love my wife but I also have needs. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with no intimacy.\u00a0 However, I feel really guilty about it, but something's telling me I have earned the right. I had no idea my wife would be this way about sex, and it just kills me. It even puts me in a bad mood sometimes.\"<\/em>\n\nAfter reading the story of Jon, do you think he has earned the right to cheat? Do you think his wife is also unfaithful and getting satisfaction from elsewhere? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.\n
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TAKE OUR POLL<\/h2>\n[totalpoll id=\"319095\"]\n\n<\/div>","post_title":"DISCUSSION: Can A Man Or Woman In A Committed Relationship 'Earn' The Right To Cheat?","post_excerpt":"","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"discussion-can-a-man-or-woman-in-a-committed-relationship-earn-the-right-to-cheat","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_modified_gmt":"2024-08-12 16:45:54","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/africanvibes.wpengine.com\/?p=4178","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"10","filter":"raw"},{"ID":305025,"post_author":"599","post_date":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_date_gmt":"2021-07-01 14:54:12","post_content":"\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_305033\" align=\"alignnone\" width=\"814\"]\"A A proposal to legalize polyandry in South Africa is causing an outcry (Photo credit: Arise News<\/a>)<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nSouth African government has put forward a proposal to legalize polyandry, a type of marriage where a woman marries multiple husbands. This move has sparked widespread uproar and debate in the country. The proposal to legitimize polyandry in South Africa was included in a green paper<\/a> that was published by the Department of Home Affairs (DHA). The paper notes that,\n\n\u201cIn 1994, South Africa inherited a marriage regime that was based on the Calvinist Christian and Western traditions\u2026. The legislation that regulates marriages in South Africa is not informed by an overarching policy that is based on constitutional values and the understanding of modern society dynamics.\u201d<\/em>\n
ALSO READ:\u00a010 Must-See Cultural Villages In South Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\nSouth Africa\u2019s constitution is one of the most liberal in the world. It legalizes polygamy and same-sex marriages. Human rights and gender activists have been pushing the government to also legalize polyandry. In an attempt to strengthen the marriage legislation, DHA is developing a marriage policy that will be a foundation for drafting a more inclusive marriage law. The aim of publishing the green paper was to allow the public to give their comments on the issues the department wants to address.\n

Outcry over Legalizing Polyandry in South Africa<\/h2>\n[caption id=\"attachment_311476\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" The complexity of Polyandry<\/em>[\/caption]\n\nAccording to gender and human rights activists, \u201cequality demands that polyandry be legally recognized as a form of marriage.\u201d Their argument on equality is based on the fact that men are permitted to marry many wives under the customary law. But other people hold a contrary opinion. Traditional leaders insist that polyandry isn\u2019t of African origin, and for that reason, it is an unacceptable practice.\n\n\n\nAlso, religious leaders in South Africa believe polyandry isn\u2019t authentically African and thus it is not acceptable. In an interview with eNCA, the leader of the African Christian Democratic Party, Reverend Kenneth Meshoe, said although polygamy is \"an accepted practice,\" polyandry is not. He added that a marriage with one wife and many husbands cannot work because men are possessive and jealous.\n\nWhile speaking to the BBC, Professor Collis Machoko said \"African societies are not ready for true equality. We don't know what to do with women we cannot control.\" TV personality and businessman Musa Mseleku is also opposed to polyandry. He said,\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0Easter Traditions You Can Only Experience In Africa<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n\"This will destroy African culture. What about the children of those people? How will they know their identity? The woman cannot now take the role of the man. It's unheard of. Will the woman now pay lobola [bride price] for the man? Will the man be expected to take her surname?\"<\/em>\n\nIn response to the public outcry, Home Affairs Minister, Aaron Motsoaledi, clarified that the proposals outlined in the green paper are not the government\u2019s official position. Thus, he encouraged the public to continue debating on the issues. According to Motsoaledi,\n\n\n\n\u201c[The green paper] only articulates possible policy options or proposals that are based on inputs received from stakeholders during ministerial dialogues. Therefore, these proposals will be subjected to public scrutiny.\u201d<\/em>\n

Reactions on Twitter<\/h2>\nMany South Africans expressed their views on social media. While some are in support of legalizing polyandry in South Africa, others strongly condemn the idea. However, each of the sides has strong reasons to back up their argument. Here are some interesting tweets.\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/SABreakingNews\/status\/1393496161609084929?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/Gao_Phala\/status\/1393828411227971588?s=20\n
ALSO READ:\u00a0The Best African Countries To Live In According To US News<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/BokangWrote\/status\/1393654425525313539?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/2021AFRICA\/status\/1393840721917001728?s=20\n\nhttps:\/\/twitter.com\/MzwaneleManyi\/status\/1393823812983173120?s=20\n\n\n\n[caption id=\"attachment_311477\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"2048\"]\"\" Married black polygamy family having therapeutical meeting at psychologist office. Three african american people sitting on a couch. Flat style stock vector illustration.[\/caption]\n\nIndeed, many conservatives in South Africa disagree with the polyandry proposal. The public had until the end of June to give their responses to the Department of Home Affairs. The department anticipated that it would receive competing opinions from the public. However, it will not consider views that undermine the rights of other people.\n\nIf the proposal to allow polyandry in South Africa becomes law, the country will join Gabon in allowing women to marry more than one man. Do you think Africa is ready for equality? We would love to hear your view in the comments section below.\n
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