I can’t say that women should be cornered or reduced to a specific role in the home. I believe a relationship is a 50-50 thing. However, in the past, there was a division of labor where the men go out to provide (Some back this up with Bible passages) while the women stayed back to take care of the home.
However, our present-day economy doesn’t support that system anymore. In a family now, both parents often have to work to keep up with the bill. Trouble usually starts when one party feels like they are doing more than the other. For example, when the woman has to work and earn money but still comes back to take care of the home.
However, while women seem to have evolved, some African men still hate the idea of being questioned or corrected by a woman (even if it is their wife).
Nevertheless, I also think most African women tend to be bossy when they start earning more than their husbands. The bottom line is that the high rate of divorce is multifaceted and cant be pinned to a single factor and both parties are equally guilty.