@trayvon asked the real question and everybody just scrolled past it.
Ngozi you are not wrong. But I want to be honest with you, your mother in law has already made up her mind about you from this. The cold shoulder is not really about that Saturday. She is filing this away. Which means the conversation you actually need to have is with your husband about how he handles his family going forward because this will happen again.
Also Coolio said “most women would have pushed through.” I need him to say that again slowly.