???? You don’t want to imagine what one of our readers said about this topic. For centuries the men had this “right” …. We discuss who made them think they had this right for another day ????????

Make I use example make my point – Every time I have been to Chateau de Versailles I can’t help but shake my head and wonder. Louis XIV made it “official” …. his madam was helpless and Pa King was so bold that he even had mini palaces in that same compound for his various concubines!!! ????????????

King Solomon be get na how many chéries again? ????????

So if men have been doing this for centuries, and since love can’t be forced (it is a decision/choice we each make to love someone, fall in love or fall out of love)….. so since everyone has needs there is no need to “chain” someone in a relationship wherein the mutual benefits and joys are lacking!

We often cringe at the word “cheating” but relationships should be mutually beneficial AND requires constant ongoing work from both parties.

The work to keep relationships alive no get end date …. Na every day that pot get for day for fire …. Na every day way Pa get for say “Abu come sit down make I rub those tired feet”, na everyday way “please” and “thank you” and “how was your day” etc etc get for be.

When we stop making each other a priority …. When real dialogue is non existent…… when we refuse counseling or help ….. whenever we are indeed no longer a priority for each other, trouble comes in and the longer the trouble drags on the easier it is to fill voids ???????? ….. AND the void-filler could be anything …. Some

Will start drinking or gardening or take a new class or travel or eat nonstop or become gym addicts or ……. Cheat!!!!!!! Na true I talk … ???????? That is why things like “irreconcilable differences” exist and some end in divorce court or just pack their cargo back to their papa/mami compound eh ????????

So short answer Mami Mira …. Short answer na “it’s complicated” but since “it’s complicated” no day for y’a list the true answer na “YES”. I never talk say make any person try am …. I just di answer na Kweshon as posed and using the available answers ????????

Chineke!!!

Na who that di find stone ???????????????? ????????????

For centuries the men had this “right” …. We discuss who made them think they had this right for another day ????????

Make I use example make my point – Every time I have been to Chateau de Versailles I can’t help but shake my head and wonder. Louis XIV made it “official” …. his madame was helpless and Pa King was so bold that he even had mini palaces in that same compound for his various concubines!!! ????????????

King Solomon be get na how many chéries again? ????????

So if men have been doing this for centuries, and since love can’t be forced (it is a decision/choice we each make to love someone, fall in love or fall out of love)….. so since everyone has needs there is no need to “chain” someone in a relationship wherein the mutual benefits and joys are lacking!

We often cringe at the word “cheating” but relationships should be mutually beneficial AND requires constant ongoing work from both parties.

The work to keep relationships alive no get end date …. Na every day that pot get for day for fire …. Na every day way Pa get for say “Abu come sit down make I rub those tired feet”, na everyday way “please” and “thank you” and “how was your day” etc etc get for be.

When we stop making each other a priority …. When real dialogue is non existent…… when we refuse counseling or help ….. whenever we are indeed no longer a priority for each other, trouble comes in and the longer the trouble drags on the easier it is to fill voids ???????? ….. AND the void-filler could be anything …. Some
Will start drinking or gardening or take a new class or travel or eat nonstop or become gym addicts or ……. Cheat!!!!!!! Na true I talk … ???????? That is why things like “irreconcilable differences” exist and some end in divorce court or just pack their cargo back to their papa/mami compound eh ????????

So short answer Mami Mira …. Short answer na “it’s complicated” but since “it’s complicated” no day for y’a list the true answer na “YES”. I never talk say make any person try am …. I just di answer na Kweshon as posed and using the available answers ????????

Chineke!!!

Na who that di find stone ????????????

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